So I'm divorced and I decided to check out the online dating sites. What a sewer! (whatever)
by freedomeagle
[–] admin2 27 points (+27|-0) ago
Over time, dating sites fill up with single moms with mixed race kids.
Any single mom with a Black Kid (of Half Black especially) NEVER will get married to a man with a job.
It never happens. Even Black men flee from half-black kids of their own creation nearly always.
Astoundingly, nearly 92% of Black men eventually flee from biracial kids they themselves create!!! 92% Study from the CDC :
archived in case shoahed : http://archive.is/TzDjR
Countless Sociology papers provoked creation of a recent documentary by the Black community, that Black men flee their kids, even if THE MOTHER IS BLACK. 72% if black mother :
Refer to :
http://blackcommunitynews.com/72-percent-documentary-on-fatherless-black-children/
archived in case shoahed : http://archive.is/vDDPd
And 98% of mixed race kids get NO MONEY SUPPORT from black fathers EVER !:
DOI: 10.2139/ssrn.2625893
Ninety Two Percent: Examining the Birth Trends, Family Structure, Economic Standing, Paternal Relationships, and Emotional Stability of Biracial Children with African American Fathers
ref "Table 6" of that 2015 Science paper : https://docdro.id/YLByGx9
Except in EVERY television commercial, the worst fathers on earth are scientifically proven to be black as shown above.
A mixed race baby is never ever going to have a father and especially not a non-black father because no white man wants to be seen in public in a role that looks like he was "cuckolded" :
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold
Women are delusional. A black thug spawn from Da'Trayvon knocks a white woman 7 full points out of 10 in dating value for long term commitment from a man with a job.
92% of Black men eventually flee from their own biracial kids
Though liberals hate science facts, Black fathers are no father at all.
Provably disgusting animals spreading their seed. Hundreds of years ago, few niglets would survive, but in white society we feed and raise and breed more of them!
[–] Pwning4Ever 2 points (+2|-0) ago
We are guilty as well for continuing to pay taxes which supports this lifestyle. There is no reason for these people to behave responsible because we will just bail them out for the next 18 years.
[–] monkeytennis 1 points (+1|-0) ago
Yep the problem is with a mixed race child, the man can't pretend its his own in day to day activities. He automatically becomes a laughing stock / figure of derision, because everyone instantly knows the child isn't his. If hes raising another mans child but its the same colour, he can at least find SOME solace in people not immediately knowing.
[–] SquarebobSpongebutt 8 points (+8|-0) ago (edited ago)
No. We don't need CrossFiters interbreeding. They already can't shut up about CrossFit.
[–] Lynch_Tree 6 points (+6|-0) ago
Just make sure you're in shape first.
[–] Professor_de_la_Paz 10 points (+10|-0) ago
A buddy of mine started going to the gym after his divorce was finalized. He was marginally out of shape but that didn't hurt him at all. He was there to get back into shape and that was enough for most women he met there.
[–] lexsird 7 points (+7|-0) ago
This. Big time. You don't want to be the disgusting 'fats' in the group. They're going to put you up front because the women don't want you looking at them from behind. There you'll be on display in all your disgusting fatness. You couldn't get pussy there with a gun after that.
You'll also get relegated in with fat bitches which is a fate worse than death, I for one would rather cut my cock off.
[–] FecalMadder 13 points (+13|-0) ago
I volunteer at the Humane Society as a dog walker. Lots of very fine women there.
[–] freedomeagle [S] 3 points (+3|-0) ago
They ended up wanting a shit ton of personal info, I'm really more interested in creating a bare bones profile and browsing to see if I actually want to use the site.
[–] WORF_MOTORBOATS_TROI 12 points (+12|-0) ago
Make a fake profile where you lie about everything. Check out the site and if you decide to use it make a real profile.
[–] tokui 5 points (+5|-0) ago
Give "inaccurate" info, incl age, not bc youre dishonest, but bc these aggregators routinely get hacked - for obvious reasons. I use these sites and others as an employer: I find out who's a fag, a liberal, etc.
Use dummy profiles. See how they react to "other" people. Can be revealing.
[–] LlamaMan 2 points (+2|-0) ago
This is likely the reason your results are trash. I met my gf on okcupid and we both had spent hours answering questions, that's how I knew we were similar. All her answers were conservative, all mine were conservative, I only matched with non moms, people with less than 5 sexual partners, etc.
The reason you are getting trash results is because you're being matched with other like minded people who are lazy as fuck and wont fill out a profile. Like a niggers mom.
[–] Pwning4Ever 8 points (+8|-0) ago
Online dating women can be broken up into 2 categories.
Fat
Relatively fit but has a fucking kid.
[–] BumFightChamp 7 points (+7|-0) ago
Remember in the 90s when meeting a girl you met online was cringy and only for losers?
Pepperidge farms remembers.
[–] Plant_Boy 7 points (+7|-0) ago (edited ago)
Dating sites are the worst place for men to find women. Yes there is a buffet of ladies but unless your looks are in the top 5% and you're earning in the top 2%, you have to select from the bottom 20%.
Join an exercise group and socialize a bit. Something like crossfit where you get a mix of men and women of varying competences and builds. Approach and speak to girls face to face, be a man and you'll probably be more successful. Failing that at least you can still life your monk life but you get fit as well.
[–] whatdoesthereeesay 7 points (+7|-0) ago
Try coffee meets bagel on your phone.
[–] freedomeagle [S] 9 points (+9|-0) ago
(((bagel))) still I'll check it out, thanks!
[–] soliddrink 5 points (+6|-1) ago (edited ago)
Your appearance and stats (job, money, height, drug preferences, etc.) aside (as if it is hard enough to convince a woman to like your profile), the dating websites have become a barren wasteland for a multitude of reasons, the most significant of which are serious controls that swing the balance of power away from men and towards women. All of these sites were previously egalitarian and setup in a way that allowed you, as a man, to properly attract a woman through the gift of gab. You could message who you wanted, any length, any frequency, any content (suggestive or not). Well, thanks to the thirst of beta men, women were receiving far too many messages, too many of which went beyond the level of their comfort. As a result, these companies went super aggressive and super SJW in controlling this, as well as penalizing masculine men who knew how to get dates and bed women from these sites.
The first thing they did, which OKCupid did silently for years but eventually admitted to doing, was to control which users you saw in your search results. The controls were based on how the opposite gender rated your profile (read: pictures). If you were getting high ratings (i.e. lots of "YES"'s), you would see high rated women (and everyone lower of course). If you were rated lower, you would not be able to see those higher rated women. And of course, men just rate every damn woman a "yes" due to shotgun theory (the idea that you will at least hit a target with a bunch of bullets as opposed to a single fine tuned shot). Might as well rate everyone "yes" in the hopes that someone rates you "yes". This is how Tinder operates for men - just swipe YES on every girl. The controls that the sites eventually implemented completely go against female biology. Men judge women on looks. Women, sure, they like a good looking guy, but the most successful men aren't the best looking, they are the ones with the most social status (even fat & ugly Jonah Hill is gettin girls because he has social status). Eventually other sites picked up on this idea and implemented it.
The second thing they did was restrict who and how much you could send to a girl. Used to be you could send unlimited messages to anyone you wanted. Yeah, OKCupid prevented people from showing in your searches, but you could at least create a fake "hot" profile, get the likes so you could see those girls, get the link to their profile and message them under your normal profile. Now? Not so much. True, if you dont get a response after 1 message, you are unlikely to get one after 10. But in this age of constant barrage of attention grabbing apps, one message usually isn't enough. And now, the apps restrict how many messages girls can receive. If they have maxed out their inbox, they can't receive more - and they will let you know you can't send them a message.
Another thing they did was allow message restrictions - controls that prevent messages from users based on shit in your profile. Plenty of Fish did this. You would try to message a girl and get rejected for the reason that something in her profile settings prevents you from messaging her. It wouldn't tell you explicitly what was preventing it, you just had to look at her profile for what she was looking for a in a date. In most cases it was an age restriction, but the system allowed you to prevent messages on the basis of anything. God forbid we allow the natural attraction of 18-20 year old women with 30+ year old men. We must force 30 year old men to date the undesirable 30+ year old women.
The biggest dagger into the dating apps that really killed them was to completely put the burden of control in the hands of women with regards to messaging. OKCupid followed Bumble's lead - the idea that the first message could only be from a girl. Men can't message first. You can match to your heart's content, but you can't talk to any girl unless they talk to you first. This completely goes against biology - women want men to chase and open them up. Problem with this idea is that women are 1) not natural chasers, and 2) not good at messaging first. The funny thing is that women expect men to have an elaborate first message (on Tinder), but when it comes to women's first message? ROFL!!!! All they send is "hi".
All of these things make men disgruntled. What do disgruntled men do? They just get up, walk and leave and don't come back. (Disgruntled women, on the other hand, will complain and make noise). What happens when all the quality men leave a dating app? The women get disgruntled for lack of choice (since they are in control). All the quality women then leave, and you are just left with what you see...the bottom of the barrel.
This happened with PlentyOfFish (I missed the boat on this one, but this apparently was a paradise for getting laid), it happened with Match.com, OKCupid (this one was great for hooking up), Badoo, CoffeeMeetsBagel. It will happen to Tinder too, if it hasn't already.
The long story short is that online dating is a shell of what it once was. All that is left is Tinder, a site that accepts human biology - the idea that people are just on these apps to get laid. Problem is that they want their cut of the money too so they put in their money making features, which suck. Then, of course, is that the app is riddled with women who think Tinder is for dating and have no desire whatsoever to use it for what it was intended (getting laid).
Frankly, the best way to find a woman is in person. Just go out for a walk, strike up a conversation, go from there.
[–] soliddrink 1 points (+1|-0) ago (edited ago)
Comes from an expert who used them all...and...eventually met his wife from it. :D
I got lucky. My wife was getting tired of the service. She was going to quit OKCupid the next day (this was still the time you could message any girl without matching first) and for some reason she picked my message. It was completely random (she didnt look at my profile before responding - she later admitted she thought my pictures were complete shit, and only went out with me because I was asking her out for lunch as opposed to all the other guys who asked her out for drinks...and also to practice English. She was an au pair studying English).
When it comes to online dating at this point in time, your best bet is to target immigrants since they haven't been poisoned by our dating culture yet. It is a sad state of affairs, but it is the reality. Even if you find an attractive woman she will probably have a shit personality...or have a high N count.
[–] obvious-throwaway- 5 points (+5|-0) ago
Get a job in healthcare (if you can). 90% women (yet oddly you won't find any protests for more men in healthcare). Anyway, caring for others is one of the few exceptions where I think it's ok for women to work. Most of the positions pay slightly better than fast food and you can build an actual career. Healthcare is everywhere, so you can move around the country if needed.
A lot of woman work in healthcare because they want to meet doctors, which almost never happens. What you get is a bunch of desperate slowly aging women who slowly realize that landing a doctor ain't going to happen and since there are almost no other men working there, they take what they can get. So yeah, if you want to find a woman who possibly has an education, stability to hold down a job, and might even come in handy when it comes time to care for children, get a job in healthcare.
[–] TheTrigger 1 points (+1|-0) ago (edited ago)
Aren't nurses notorious whores, though? I've heard a few anecdotal stories of men who work in hospitals, who describe the sexual climate as more-or-less one giant, non-stop orgy (obviously, I'm slightly hyperbolizing here).
[–] obvious-throwaway- 0 points (+0|-0) ago (edited ago)
I don't know about that, but they'll definitely bitch endlessly about their co-workers as most all of their co-workers are women and women don't have higher cognitive abilities and so spend much of their time bitching about other woman as opposed to improving themselves in anyway.
A lot more than nurses work in healthcare though. Healthcare has billing, HR, reception, administration, finance and many, many other positions filled with young pretty single women hoping they might be able to land a doctor (who many of which are now women as well).
P.S. Avoid women doctors, always use a male doctor. Trust me, they had to work twice as hard to earn their degree.
[–] FreeToLive 0 points (+0|-0) ago
They don't really have time for home life so yeah. But they are fairly mentally stable and if you can lock one down they stop whoring out because it's easier with their job not too if they have a dude.
[–] Steinmacher 0 points (+0|-0) ago
I was in a large doctor's office yesterday... all but two of the woman who worked there were morbidly obese. one who wasn't was in training because she just started a week ago, the other looked very athletic and young, but give her time.
[–] anarchee 4 points (+4|-0) ago
I started dating again last year after a long relationship and noticed how drastically internet dating has changed. The pay sites like Match aren't much better and constantly try to up charge you for services. If you do use them list 1/3 to 1/2 your real income. I've been focusing more on offline encounters. Find a good hobby that is something you are interested in, or want your future partner to be interested in.. cooking, fitness, etc.
[–] AreWeThereYet 4 points (+4|-0) ago
It's no better for women...
I don't like posting income or personal info either.
Not worth the time going to the site or checking out the messages. Even if you put some info in about what you like and dislike - most people don't read it or if they do - they ignore it.
And "complicated" - WTH is that?
People are stupid.
[–] primaryappellation 1 points (+1|-0) ago
Join a club. Get a hobby
[–] AreWeThereYet 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I have hobbies. Most are probably pretty boring. :)
Clubs = can be great - but can also be an obligation that becomes another job rather than fun.
[–] IGiveZeroFucks 1 points (+1|-0) ago
Online dating is mostly fat/ugly women and single moms looking for 666 Chads (6 feet, 6 figures, 6 pack) who for some reason they think they deserve. There's a few decent women but they aren't there to date...just get validation.
Pretty much all of them are hyper-liberal, fag-loving Trump haters with boring lives. They "like to have fun" and their interests mostly consist of pop culture bullshit.
[–] BoraxTheFungarian 1 points (+1|-0) ago
Just gotta find time to go out with a decent wingman... Or join a club. The scene is rough right now. I'm a single guy, never married with no kids, make a living wage, full benefits, paying off a nice house, good physical shape... Thought I was working up some good qualities... Apparently women aren't at all worried about building up a good dating resume. OH WELL
[–] PatriotLady1 1 points (+1|-0) ago
I met my husband 20 yrs ago on a dating site. But we both were in our late 40s.
[–] Sys0psy0p 0 points (+0|-0) ago
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[–] IGiveZeroFucks 0 points (+0|-0) ago
Find a passable tranny girlfriend. She'll do pretty much anything for you. They love to play traditional housewife and wait on their boyfriends. She'll suck your dick multiple times a day and be grateful rather than annoyed if you cum in her mouth or on her face. She'll always be down for sex and you never have to worry about "shark week." Best of all, endless amounts of anal. Ass is way better than pussy.
[–] Humanicide 0 points (+0|-0) ago
I was always curious what kind of lonely loser would use these kind of things.
[–] Waffle_ninja 0 points (+0|-0) ago
You are not going to met decent women online. Join a local social group (church, gaming, whatever) and go from there.
[–] BordelonLoop 0 points (+0|-0) ago
there are dating sites just for conservatives now. i am sorry but i haven't memorized them. but date right or right date something like that?
[–] fritz_maurentod 0 points (+0|-0) ago
Fats, drunks, ugly as hell, bodies ruined by large tattoos, nose-ringed bitches, single-moms, drug addicts, 30+ y.o."students", etc. That's Tinder in Germany :D
[–] Justwhiteofcenter 0 points (+0|-0) ago
I married a Hmong from Thailand. They are conservative, the women make sure to cook good food and keep you satisfied.
[–] tragicwhale 0 points (+0|-0) ago
I hear this all the time from friends who are single or gotten divorced. God Speed.
[–] friendshipistragic 0 points (+1|-1) ago
Try church. Religious women are more naughty than you might think.
[–] fightknightHERO 0 points (+0|-0) ago
isn't there a white dating site for White Nationalists?
[–] redsfan277 0 points (+0|-0) ago
Where do you live?
A cheap flight to colombia cartagena is like 200$ and you can get to pick any hot broad down there...hell its too easy if you go anywhere outside a western country. Anywhere really i have read Brazilian chicks are the ones chasing you in certain cities...i def need to travel there next.
[–] primaryappellation 0 points (+0|-0) ago
No. No non-whites except east Asians, and even then you have to more than double your offspring count to offset the genetic washout. Mestizos are usually less than 50% white, and that's if you ignore the the Arabization that took place before the reconquista
[–] redsfan277 0 points (+0|-0) ago
Who says you marry them? You go to forget about your womyn troubles in the USA and feel like a fucking king doing it.
Trouble is too many men like it too much and never get a white wife afterwards....but getting experience talkingg to women and seeing that they aren't all that will help you find a good woman in western countries. I suppose practice makes better, just dont marry anyone
[–] AnothervoatAcc 0 points (+0|-0) ago
I have heard pay sites are better.
[–] fuck_reddits_feefees 0 points (+0|-0) ago
Match.com (what op referenced above) is a pay site, at least it used to be, I haven't been single since 2012 though.
[–] Atomized_Individual 0 points (+2|-2) ago
The beautiful girls or women in any city will be at a coffee shop. I promise.
[–] SyriansFuckCorpses 0 points (+1|-1) ago
Or in the whorehouse. If the girls gain weight they get kicked out
[–] vladtep -1 points (+0|-1) ago (edited ago)
Put an ad on Craigslist as a sperm donor for spinsters. You can have 10 white baybays and get your combat training done, which is way more important.
Anything that involves speaking to a female at any length is out of the question in my book, other than "how much?" and that type of thing. lol
The way it's supposed to be is your parents find you a wife when you're 16 or so, she shits out a few kids, you divorce or not and if you do, from 40 on you get to do your thing, have a 20 year old girfriend, etc. If you don't divorce, you basically drive her to church and stay out of each other's way until you both croak.
No female is really good to talk to, if you're lucky, she'll do the chores to free you up and she won't be a total bitch about it. The most important thing about a woman is does she mind cooking and cleaning and keeping the house. If she won't, nothing else about her makes up for it.
The biggest mistake most men make is having unrealistic expectations. It sucks under the best conditions, it's not supposed to be fun, it never was.
[–] IGiveZeroFucks 0 points (+0|-0) ago
Black pill nonsense.
[–] Themooninthesky -2 points (+2|-4) ago
I saw a news report that the US approved thousands of child brides over the years. It’s not too late for us!
[–] WORF_MOTORBOATS_TROI 42 points (+52|-10) ago (edited ago)
Online dating is for whores. Go to church if you want to find virtuous women
[–] freedomeagle [S] 60 points (+66|-6) ago
My exwife was very religious, as we were divorcing she explained to me how she used the bible to rationalize having an affair and lying to me about it. She says other women she would meet with from church would indirectly give her advice about it through selected verses. All women are whores, except my mother of course.
[–] lexsird 34 points (+38|-4) ago
What kind of fucked up faggot church did you go to? I'd be telling the pastor about that kind of shit, if he's any kind of man of God, he'll be cleaning house of the whores. Church whores are the worst whores I've found.
Apostle Paul talked about staying away from them if you could. If you couldn't it was best to get married so you didn't burn in hell for sinning with them, but if you could resist to stay single. WTF? Right? lol
[–] Ina_Pickle 14 points (+15|-1) ago
Church of Wicca?
[–] Colonel_Questionmark 13 points (+14|-1) ago
This is why in actual Christianity (for those that read the whole Bible and not just selected scriptures which have been cherry-picked) it is clear that women should not interpret scripture nor even speak at all in church.
Remember: Eve was deceived first. Then Adam sinned because he was more interested in pleasing woman than pleasing God.
[–] WORF_MOTORBOATS_TROI 4 points (+4|-0) ago
What kind of a church did she go to?
[–] lexsird 19 points (+22|-3) ago
Going to church to meet women. I find that to be highly questionable motives for going to church. If I go to church it's to experience worship, not look for hell bait women.
[–] WORF_MOTORBOATS_TROI 5 points (+9|-4) ago
Was my comment wrong or did you just see an opportunity to be a self-righteous douche and jump on it?
[–] Jewed 1 points (+2|-1) ago
The type of people that go to church fit right in being hypocritical douches. Pick out whatever whore you want, but don't forget your tithe.
[–] vladtep 0 points (+0|-0) ago
Garbage in, garbage out.
[–] SyriansFuckCorpses 0 points (+3|-3) ago
I'll just take OP's old wife. After the first 2 inches, the rest of the bergina is uncharted territory
[–] dontforgetaboutevil 11 points (+11|-0) ago
The woman I'm with now is extremely religious and it's why I'm about to leave her. This woman spends 4-5 hours a day listening to evangelical broadcasts on her fucking iphone. She preaches nonstop and like every other goddamned christian I've ever known she is the biggest fucking hypocrite you can imagine.
In any case, all I will say is that a woman who puts more passion into god than she does into the bedroom is fucking worthless.
[–] truthwoke33 4 points (+4|-0) ago (edited ago)
People who read my post history probably think I hate Christians but actually I'm dating one. And it never bothers me because their world views are grounded in rationality rather than fanaticism. Fanaticism is indeed a form of insanity and isn't a healthy way to engage in life.
[–] bfriend13 1 points (+1|-0) ago
Christians are commanded to love God with all their heart, mind and soul. A husband would come next. And if you are not a Christian, she shouldn't be dating you or married to you, unless she converted after marriage. But I also understand the weariness you feel from her non-stop preaching. She (and most wives) would be better off living the life and leave your conversion to God.
[–] ninjajunkie 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Or pick a subject to study at the local library, if you're not a religious person.
[–] WORF_MOTORBOATS_TROI 1 points (+2|-1) ago
Are you talking about librarians?